Tim Hardaway, shown to the right about to get it on with NBA official Bennett Salvatore, has issued an apology for saying he hates gay people. The apology is as brief as it is meaningless. Check it out: "Yes, I regret it. I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said I hate gay people, or anything like that. That was my mistake."So he's sorry not for what he said, but he's sorry he said it. And I don't doubt that that's true, Hardaway probably does regret it after seeing what an uproar it caused. I'm sure he wishes he could have those few minutes of his life back.
One guy who wouldn't want him to take it back, though, is John Amaechi, the gay former NBA'er who inspired Hardaway's bile. Here's what Amaechi said to Den Le Batard, who conducted the interview with Hardaway.
'I'm actually tempted to laugh,'' Amaechi said Wednesday. ``Finally, someone who is honest. It is ridiculous, absurd, petty, bigoted and shows a lack of empathy that is gargantuan and unfathomable. But it is honest. And it illustrates the problem better than any of the fuzzy language other people have used so far.''It seems like Amaehi feels that Hardaway's comments are a little more representative of the norm in the NBA than anything else that's been out there so far. Hardaway says he believes his comments represent a majority of the NBA, and I hope that's not true.
In fact, I don't think it is true, I think NBA players deserve a little more credit than that. The NBA might not be a bastion of progressive thinkers, but it's not a group of hateful people. There might be a lot of guys who are uncomfortable with homosexuality, just as there are a ton of people like that in all of society. But there's a difference between that and outright hatred, and I'd like to think that most NBA players stop short of Hardaway's hostility.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 9)
2-15-2007 @ 8:16AM
Don Mynack said...
3 posts on this? OK, mjd, we get that you are down with the gay. Enough already.
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2-15-2007 @ 9:49AM
Cory Demont said...
Tim Hardaway needs to be booted off, no way he can get by with such a bigoted remark. That would be like a white gay saying he hates blacks. Sorry, someone needs to step in and boot him out.
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2-15-2007 @ 10:50AM
rfg said...
i really think that mr hartaway needs to seek some professional help!!!
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2-15-2007 @ 11:10AM
Tim Hardaway said...
gays should't be allowed in the nba. period.
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2-15-2007 @ 12:15PM
coach said...
tim made a mistake in saying i hate gay people. he should have just said , i hate the raptors or something.
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2-15-2007 @ 11:30AM
jack said...
my opinion of Hardaways He is great man. and blunt his true feeling about gay. sound like he is not approval on gay life.. i am proud of him. alot other countries called america passive with feelings. gay is okay.. blah blah.. but your bottom of heart. do you want your kids turn gay and gay.. la la la.. you have problem with hardaways.. mean you should see shrink!!
jack
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3-14-2007 @ 12:31PM
Tracy said...
How much smarter and more articulate does John Amaechi come across when comapred to the idiotic Tim Hardaway?
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2-15-2007 @ 11:38AM
Is said...
Tim Hardaway said what many wish they could say. Smart on his behalf? Maybe not! Credit the man for his honesty. Now let's wait and see all the big celeb homosexuals go nuts on him. Yeah I'm calling you out Rosie. Enough with Trump.Take this one on.HAHAHAHAH!
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2-15-2007 @ 4:59PM
rob said...
I think he shouldn't apologize. Homosexuality is disgusting and will ruin society. Hate was the wrong word though. Love the sinner not the sin.
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2-15-2007 @ 12:57PM
Sportz Assassin said...
What I think is great about this is how the "barbarian gay man" John Amaechi is so eloquent in his speak while the "civilized" Tim Hardaway talks out of his arse.
Again, what if someone told Tim Hardaway that they hate black people and it shouldn't be "in the world or the United States"??
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2-15-2007 @ 1:02PM
TJ said...
The answer to free speech is more free speech. Here's my more. Hardaway is a moron and a bigot. Amaechi is correct to characterize his lack of empathy as "gargantuan and unfathomable." The bottom line is, Hardaway wouldn't just choose to stay away from gays; he would deprive them of a job. Good thing for him a passing grade in English grammar isn't a requirement for NBA employment.
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2-27-2007 @ 11:51PM
Coach P said...
If he hates so much how would he like to be called a
Ni--er, hate is hate no matter how you slice it! Hey Tim didn't your Momma tell you"...if you don't have anything nice to say, DON'T..."
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2-15-2007 @ 2:24PM
hanna said...
It's his opinion, who cares? get over it, he's gay, he plays basketball, so what. as long as he doesn't fondle me, i'm fine.
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2-15-2007 @ 5:30PM
eddie said...
i agree with hardaway, i h8 gays.
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2-15-2007 @ 2:29PM
K.Murray said...
Okay we al have reservations about the whole thing.Why did he need to come out anyway?He does what he wants in the privacy of his own home,so why should you share your life style with everyone.That his business so keep it that way.Why put yourself in the spot lite for 15 minutes of more fame.Live your life and move on.
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2-15-2007 @ 2:32PM
HandThatFeedsNYC said...
He would rather be traded to another team? Kinda like the way blacks were traded as slaves? This career is over and if it is not, the NBA will walk around with this black eye for a long time.
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2-15-2007 @ 5:58PM
Tom said...
When is our society, (black as well as white), going to STAND UP and put an end to the "double standard". If our citizenry and "press" thinks it is wrong for the things people like Mel Gibson or Michael Richards say; then we/they should equally chastise and condemn the bigoted remarks by the likes of the Isiah Washington's and Tim Hardaway's of our country. I don't think Michael Richards has much of a career left and he's profusely apologized.
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2-15-2007 @ 4:46PM
Isa said...
Homophobia is not tolerable any longer. Get over it, it's a thing of the past.
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2-15-2007 @ 2:39PM
Shasha said...
Okay! Enough already. Why do we have to know that someone is gay? Being gay is not the same as being Black. You can hide being gay. You can't hide being Black. Talk about being ignorant! These two things are just not the same, no matter how hard the media tries to make them the same. On Hardaway's comment.....yea it was stupid. So what! There are a lot of stupid ignorant people in the world. It just so happens that someone put a microphone in front of this ignoramous' face.
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2-15-2007 @ 2:40PM
neno said...
since when the normal people should issue an apology when they say what they think about the ubnormal people, i don't like or respect gay people too and i'm not homophobic, insted i'm normal person who thinks that marriage, love and intemacy should be between a man and a woman.
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